Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Do you respect yourself?

Before you even think about picking up women, you have to start respect yourself. This is a part of the inner game of your game.

If you do not love yourself, nobody can love you. It's like in the film "The Secret" - The law of attraction won't allow you to get a girl attracted to you before you like yourself.

I'm now showing you a few methods, how you can reach self respect.


1. Affirmation - Every morning in the mirror you can say positive things to you, like I'm beautiful, I'm worth to get a girlfriend...

2. Hobbys - Sports, Collecting Card, becoming an expert in one subject.. can bring you more self respect.

3. Practice - When you often approach women you will automatically gain A LOT more self respect..

This is it for the day..

BEST REGARDS

Xavier Flynn

Monday, December 29, 2008

The right body language

A very important topic of seduction is body language.
A woman can see if you are a loser or an Alpha male.
Body language is an extremely potent signal generator and betrays us
a lot about our fellow human beings. People with low status
within the group reduce the look and seem inhibited.

The alpha male moves calm, relaxed and upright.
Sitting you see the most relaxed alpha leaned back.
He takes the space that he needs. While his friends are anxious,
Contatto to anyone and very little place for that claim,
Alpha is not shy from being with others in physical contact with
come. He examines the eyes
others who participates in society will always be open and receptive. He
sees his opposite when speaking almost always in the eye. That this
not as rigid felt uncomfortable, is one of the
observant and lively gestures and facial expressions of Alpha, other
at his high position themselves, so to speak, he's right, his
Others intensive patterns. During the conversation partner is talking,
Alpha gives him strong feedback. This can be a nod, a
reassuring grip on the upper arm or a laugh and a defensive end
Gesture with his hands raised. Thus communicates the
Alpha itself as a listener.
On the main the alpha uses his body
as a tool for communication. He uses powerful, far to delve into
Gestures, to express his feelings and to stories
vividly and comprehensibly to tell. Alphas often seem more willing to
As a group to each person to speak. While the heckling
others often remain unheard, his voice is attention, including
if he is so in another interview interfere. The body language
is an incredibly powerful tool proceeded.

Even when you watch the body language surprisingly quickly to those
Uncertainties approached, where your primary attention than
Beginner in the field of proceeded must apply.
Attempts once, during a conversation with a desirable
relaxed eye contact and maintain them there and
smiles at her again! Depending on your experience with women and
your security it will be easy or very difficult.
Force yourself at the next opportunity anyway!
Watch her facial expression, her mouth, her eyes. Watch it on you if you
necks and she starts to laugh.
The thrill, you'll feel, is a
promising full taste of everything in dealing with
the beautiful sex. This kick, this feeling will helpg you get a really got Pickup Artist.

You don't have to get the girl everytime!

If you are a very determined person, who always wants to win, this post is for you!

Maybe you go to a club with the goal of approaching 30 women and you end up with only one approach. Then you would obviously be very disappointed. But this is made in your mind. You do not have to do this. You should always set only the goal of having fun and not more.

Too stmuchriving will preclude life satisfaction.

So enjoy your life and see pickup as fun not as work.


BEST REGARDS,
Xavier Flynn

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Hey this ist Xavier Flynn!

I'm an Pickup Artist and Personal Coach. I live in San Francisco and like to give you a Dating Advice every day!

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